We have spent our vacation at a beautiful lake front cottage. It’s just a gorgeous spot with a delightful, cozy and charming cottage. In fact, of all the cottages we’ve rented since my parents sold theirs, this one has been the nicest for the kids. Beautiful sandy beach, shallow water so the little ones can play and one of the most beautiful views I’ve ever seen on any of the lakes we’ve stayed on.
Unfortunately, our vacation started out bumpy. My mother, who is in her later 70’s, while entering the cottage, fell off the very uneven cement steps. Fortunately, she landed on me.
Her bad hip, which is touchy anyway, is the one she landed on. It is swollen and bruised. My mother is the most stubborn woman I’ve ever met. I suggested we go to the hospital for an x-ray, because breaking a hip was a real possibility with this fall. She said, “No. I’m just embarrassed, I don’t need to make it worse by going to a hospital…” Well, alright then.
My future daughter-in-law, an EMT came up to the cottage two days later and told her she could have a broken hip and still be able to walk. (Which I mentioned several times, by the way…) Then Mom says “Maybe I’ll have to have this checked out when we get home. I didn’t know you could walk with a broken hip…”. Um, really? I mentioned I had told her that, multiple times, and mom said “Well, she’s an EMT.”
Mom listens to anyone but me. I give up.
Amilah was very constipated this week, so I helped her go potty. This is an unpleasant experience for everybody, but when babies are stopped up they hurt. Poor munchkin…
Our Leah was the only one to catch a fish! She was excited and we were excited for her! She spent every moment she could in the water. Leah also had fun playing board games at night with everybody. I think she enjoyed her vacation thoroughly.
Anthony did so many firsts this week, I am tearing up just writing about it. He was offered extra bacon at breakfast, which is his favorite food, and he gave it to my nephew, Troy. This is not something Anthony has ever done before. He also went in the water, often, and even got his face wet! Another first. He also saw a kid with a “Minecraft” image on his shirt and Anthony talked with him. Had an actual conversation Anthony initiated. He asked the boy what his favorite stuff(?) is on the game, and they talked together for quite awhile. It was heartwarming to see. And both Erin and I cried. We are so proud of our boy! He’s made huge progress just lately and we’re thrilled to see it.
Little Miss Amilah was a delight and a challenge. She has absolutely no fear! She’s a little fish and wanted to be in the water constantly. We worked on swimming and she has the idea, but has yet to understand she can’t breathe under water. We had some coughing every day, but she knows she has to kick her feet and move her arms. Getting that to happen at the same time was a bit difficult. But she was lots of fun and kept us on our toes. She made my dad’s day when she’d wake up and peek out of the crib, calling for Grampy.
As always, we ate very well. Erin and my mom had decided the menu and there was something for everybody. One night was spaghetti for our Leah, which is her favorite. Our problem was the oven was much hotter than it should have been. Some of the stuff I made did end up a bit overdone, which annoyed my mother no end. But I cannot be held responsible for an oven that is not the correct temperature.
The cottage was charming, but small. We have a large herd of people in our family so we had some creative sleeping arrangements. My niece and I shared a bed in one bedroom, Erin and the kids in one and my folks in the third. This left the larger main room. We had blow up mattresses, used the couch and the recliner. Kasey even slept in the hammock outside a couple nights…
Even though we were busy with the kids, I did work on the book. I finished the chapter I was working on when we left, wrote a second one and finished the study questions for each chapter which go with the book. I didn’t sleep well, so was up anyway. I worked at the table, in the dark, while everybody slept. Got a lot done. I was pretty happy with my progress.
While I was reluctant to go due to my health issues, I was able to hold off, or muscle through, most of it. I made every effort to appear perfectly healthy, never letting on I was struggling with anything. My parents have no idea how extensive my health stuff is, and I prefer to keep it that way. But it was a tremendous effort to make all the meals, take care of the kids so Erin (who has pericarditis) didn’t have to do as much, take care of my mom and pretend I felt just fine. I’m exhausted and need a vacation to recover from my vacation.